Foxy's Ponderings: Need your help...

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Not sure I will keep this header...I tried to think of something cute ... Foxy tends to lead people in a certain direction that I don't want them to go...so we will see.

My grandmother used to introduce me to people as her Foxy grandaughter. I would wait expecting, hoping that she would explain but to my horror she always ... left me hangin'. We would glance uncomfortably at each other and the strangers that I just met would kindly smile but you could see the awkward confussion on their faces ... I then would say, "Fox, is my last name." and we would all giggle and have a moment of clarity ... and relief.

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Need your help...

I have a situation I need some thoughts on...

If there is a person in your life that is supposed to be one of the most important people in your life only hasn't been due to their decisions. In fact this person has been absent nearly your entire life. You have chosen to forgive and move on. You have closed the door on that person...not because they make an effort to be there for you but their lack of effort has hurt you and why allow yourself to continually be hurt by this person? Not that they are even trying. Like I said they have been absent nearly your entire life.

Well, now you find out that this person is sick, needing surgery and has a bad heart on top of it.

Oddly you are confused by your emotions. You are not wanting to open the door that will lead to heart ache again and more lies. But what if this is the last chance to reconcile? What does reconcile even mean because this person would still not be apart of your life?

Do you make contact and let them know you are thinking of them? Even though you really are unsure what to even think? Do you go to the funeral when and if that should occur? Even though in doing so it would mean a financial burden. This would be the final chapter of closure ever... so what is your part in that?